Matchmaking – Hot and Social
Introducing Hot And Social Matchmaking

Meet your match, offline.

You’ve built a life you love. Now let’s find the person you want to share it with. A highly personalized matchmaking experience for accomplished, relationship-minded singles who are ready for something real.

Real people. Thoughtful introductions. Meaningful relationships.
Marni Kagan, Hot And Social matchmaker
Lisa Ronis, Hot And Social matchmaker
Two experts
one social
network
Human over algorithm   ✦   Quality over quantity   ✦   Thoughtful introductions   ✦   Relationship-minded singles   ✦   Human over algorithm   ✦   Quality over quantity   ✦   Thoughtful introductions
Meet the Hot And Social Matchmakers

Two seasoned matchmakers. One shared mission.

Lisa Ronis and Marni Kagan bring decades of experience, deeply personal matchmaking styles, and wide networks of accomplished singles to Hot And Social.

0125+ years

Lisa Ronis

Hot And Social Matchmaker

Lisa has spent more than 25 years helping busy, successful, well-educated singles find committed, loving relationships.

Her approach is deeply personalized, warm, intuitive, and hands-on. She combines a sharp understanding of today’s dating landscape with an extensive, highly selective network and an exceptional eye for compatibility.

A natural-born connector, Lisa was matchmaking friends as early as college. Before making it her full-time career, she earned a BA in Fine Arts from Hunter College, studied at Parsons and FIT, and ultimately became Vice President of Design for Fashion Accessories at Liz Claiborne.

She later turned her lifelong instinct for connecting people into a career, also organizing social and fundraising events that brought singles together around great causes.

“We change lives through successful relationships.”
0218 years

Marni Kagan

Hot And Social Matchmaker

Marni has spent the past 18 years bringing great people together, specializing in smart, accomplished, sophisticated singles who are ready to find something meaningful.

Her clients often have no trouble meeting people — they simply don’t want to waste time on relationships that aren’t going anywhere. Marni gets to know each client beyond a résumé or dating profile, understanding personality, values, lifestyle, goals, and what they truly want in a partner.

A Georgetown University and Emory Law School graduate, Marni practiced law for a decade before following her passion for relationships. That background sharpened her ability to listen closely, ask the right questions, read people, and understand what lies beneath the surface.

For Marni, matchmaking is not simply about getting two people on a date. It is about creating a connection with the potential to become a lasting partnership, marriage, and family.

Nothing makes her happier than seeing two people she introduced build a life together.
Why Hot And Social Matchmaking?

Dating apps introduced us to more people. Not necessarily the right ones.

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Human over algorithm.

Your matches are selected by experienced matchmakers, not generated by an app.

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Quality over quantity.

We are not trying to fill your calendar with dates. We are trying to introduce you to people worth meeting.

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Highly personalized.

Your personality, chemistry, values, lifestyle, and long-term goals all matter.

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A real-world network.

Decades of matchmaking experience meet the broader Hot And Social community and its culture of real-life connection.

How It Works

Less swiping. More intention.

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Apply

Tell us about yourself, what you’re looking for, and where you are in your dating life.

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Meet Your Matchmaker

If we believe we can help, you’ll speak with the Hot And Social Matchmaking team.

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We Get to Know You

Your lifestyle, values, dating history, non-negotiables, patterns, goals, and chemistry.

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We Search

Our matchmakers tap into their networks and the wider Hot And Social ecosystem.

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Get Introduced

When we find someone genuinely worth meeting, we make the introduction.

Who It’s For

You don’t need help getting dates. You want help finding your person.

The person you’re looking for may not be on your dating app. They may be one thoughtful introduction away.
✓ Accomplished and intentional about your life
✓ Ready for a committed relationship
✓ Tired of wasting time on apps or situationships
✓ Open to being introduced instead of endlessly searching
✓ Looking for someone who fits the life you have built — and the life you want next
You’ve done the swiping.

Now let someone who actually knows you do the searching.

Welcome to Hot And Social Matchmaking — thoughtful, personal introductions for singles ready for something real.

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